Monday, October 29, 2007

Hungry Pumpkins

We carved pumpkins with the kids tonight. Heard from Blake in most excited voice right as we got started: "I am so excited to starve my pumpkin!!!"

Remind me to get one of those packages of pumpkin carving tools next year. I just about sliced my thumb off.

Wednesday, October 24, 2007

Oh No...

I am SO grateful for all the business - I had to delete that last post because I don't want people NOT to call me - LOL I guess the stress is mainly trying to fit in the other job and this... stressful. But I LOVE this. It is my livelyhood - besides my kids I mean :) I just need to learn to balance a little better.

AND KERSTEN, I DIDN'T MEAN YOU! That was honestly one of my most favorite shoots this year!!!

Discover this...

Staci and I decided to take the kids to the Children's Discovery Museum last Thursday. We had a BLAST! That night I got super sick with fever, aches, chills, super sore throat - Friday I spent as much of the day as I could in bed shivering/aching away. I don't think I have been that sick for a long time! I overdosed on vitamin C and as of Monday it seemed to be gone. Who knows what that was?

And now for pics from out little day out...























And finally, this is what Sydney had in the back of her 'car'. Homeaker in the making I would say! LOL

Thursday, October 18, 2007

Maternity Photos

I have wanted to do some maternity photos for the longest time but everytime I would book a shoot it would fall through... Last night Courtney Brown's sister Corine came over with her hubby Tim and I finally got to take some maternity photos! I was pretty happy with the results for a first shot but I definitely need some better lighting to do adults in the studio!

My sister-in-law Heather is having her first baby (A GIRL!!!) in December or possibly November ;) I have been bugging her about maternity phtoos for awhile because she has the most beautiful little belly. She finally asked me yesterday and I couldn't believe it! The results are some of my favorite family photos to date yet. Here is one of Heather and for the rest go to HERE.

Saturday, October 13, 2007

Couldn't have said it better myself.

Because I believe in breast feeding without having to hide in a dirty public restroom so oversexualized individuals can feel more 'comfortable'.

Copied from here:

http://mamamojo.wordpress.com/2007/05/01/whos-really-making-the-controversy-here/

Mojo of a MamaMay 1, 2007
Who’s really making the controversy here?
Filed under: awareness, breastfeeding, convenience, hygiene, infant, intent, mother, natural, nursing — Tara @ 9:05 pm

“Making milk public controversy”
By: Charles Winokoor, business writer
04/27/2007
So there I was grocery shopping the other day when, just as I reached for a quart of skim milk, I noticed the strangest thing.Women - mothers, to be exact - began dropping to the floor and breast-feeding their babies. Hurrying out of the dairy section, I found myself surrounded by pet supplies, but again was confronted with a surrealistic sight: Unsupervised canines and tabbies relieving themselves willy nilly, and then sauntering off to leave the mess for the night crew to clean up. Get out now, I told myself, as the sweat trickled down my brow. And wouldn’t you know it, just as I scurried past the Health & Beauty aisle I spied a group of men, shirts off, nonchalantly spraying and rolling their underarms with the deodorizer of their choice. Decorum precludes me from detailing what I witnessed in the place where they sell the Charmin. Knocking over a shopping cart with a child’s seat, I ran into the parking lot and headed for my car to make a getaway. As I fumbled for my key, I realized it was too late; I was surrounded.
………
………
Waking up in bed, I took stock of my nightmare. What in the world had
inspired my subconscious to unleash such nocturnal torment?
Then it came to me. It was nothing more mysterious than this week’s story
about a Hingham mom who managed to cause a stir by breast-feeding her infant
in the middle of a store.
Last Friday, Brockton cardiologist Dr. Melissa Tracy, while shopping in the South Hingham iParty store, dropped to the floor and began breast-feeding her ostensibly starving 2-month-old child. “Rather than let him become hysterical, I sat down on the floor and breast-fed him,” Tracy told the Boston Herald. What happened next, she said, caused her to feel humiliated. The store manager, a regular Darth Vader it seems, had the gall to admonish her. “He stood over me and said ‘You can’t do that here,’ ” she was quoted. “I’ve never felt that badly before.” Feeling emotionally scarred, Tracy did the honorable and proper thing: She ratted out the iParty blue meanie to his corporate superiors - who issued a knee-jerk, please-don’t-hit-me mea culpa, faster than CBS Radio and MSNBC gave Don Imus the bum’s rush. What she’s failed to mention, either in print or on TV, is why she was so compelled to plop to the floor instead of walking to the ladies room. Would she have jeopardized her child’s welfare, his very life, if she had simply made the effort? Or was she more interested in making a point about who she is and what she thinks she represents? During a TV interview, her husband said in his native Germany breast-feeding in public is an accepted practice and one that is

“not vulgar.” Not vulgar for sure - but how about annoying? Not the act of breast-feeding, mind you, but the behavior of well-educated parents who want to impose their version of an enlightened society upon the rest of us, without regard to our
sensibilities. That sort of selfish, guerilla mentality is not just inconsiderate to those
of us backward Americans who are not used to seeing babies suckling while we’re shopping for party supplies or dog food, it’s also unfair to the companies whose employees are only trying to do the right thing. Now, if any business - be it retail chain, a local independent store or a car dealership - announces a policy explicitly allowing open breast-feeding then that’s their prerogative. But one also has to ponder how this type of
adult-baby behavior will eventually affect the child. No wonder there’s a legion of kids nowadays who have grown up thinking they’re extra-special, entitled and oh-so-superior; after all, it’s been imbedded into their id since they were fed mother’s milk. This whole silly episode reminds me, in a way, of the case of the “flying imams,” six religious Muslims who were removed from a flight last November after they insisted on standing up in the plane for evening prayers. They knew exactly what they were doing. They wanted publicity and they got it, in spades. That’s not to say the good doctor from Brockton intended, ahead of time, to use her breast-feeding as a publicity stunt to teach the rest of us a good lesson. From what I’ve read and heard, she comes across as a decent, sincere individual. What I do suggest to her and other mothers who act rashly, and then condemn anyone who complains, is to grow up before your child does. And next time you go shopping with your infant in your arms, try bringing along a baby bottle.

Charles Winokoor is the business writer for the Taunton Daily Gazette.

cwinokoor@tauntongazette.com



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Dear Charles,

You are brave man to have included your e-mail address in your “business article.” That or you are just plain stupid, I am leaning towards the latter. I absolutely loathed your comparison of feeding an infant in a grocery store to animals urinating up and down the pet food aisles. I’m following you here with regard that both urine and breastmilk are in fact bodily fluids. But considering that one is used to nourish a child through its infancy (and beyond) and the other is waste matter excreted by the kidneys, I’m not really seeing the connection in your comparison. I am also not seeing the connection between mothers and infants in a grocery store and dogs and cats in a grocery store. Maybe you were unaware that women and infants are in fact permitted into grocery stores and permitted by law (in MANY states) to breastfeed in any public place that they are allowed to be. Maybe you are unaware that only service animals that DO NOT “relieve themselves willy nilly, and then saunter off to leave the mess for the night crew to clean up,” are permitted in these stores as well. But sure, compare the breastfeeding mother to an animal relieving itself in the middle of a store - STRIKE ONE!

Once again, I am having trouble establishing the connection between grown, shirtless men engaging in personal hygiene routines in public and mothers feeding their children. This comparison is less offensive yes, but still as far fetched as you calling this a “business article.” And secondly, I am willing to bet my milk-makers that if this mother you are attacking was shirtless, you wouldn’t have complained one bit about what she was doing with her breasts (provided there wasn’t a feeding child on the other end). As ignorant as you obviously are, I still can’t let this slide -STRIKE TWO!

Now your comment about what was going on in the aisle where Charmin toilet paper is sold was completely out of line. Somethings are just better left unsaid, as you obviously know because you only had the nerve to imply that defecating in the middle of a grocery store is equivalent to nursing a child. For this one, I’ll just be honest…YOU’RE AN ASS.

If seeing a mother feed her child in the way that was intended by nature causes so much of an upset in your life that you in fact have nightmares from it, then you should certainly reevaluate your mental health. There are highly qualified individuals who can help you with this. Or you could just come to Central, Fl, call me up and I can slap you in your face a few times -whatever works for you

“Last Friday, Brockton cardiologist Dr. Melissa Tracy, while shopping in the
South Hingham iParty store, dropped to the floor and began breast-feeding
her ostensibly starving 2-month-old child.” Okay Charles, do you even know what ostensibly means? Are you implying that a 2 month old child has ulterior motives to crying out in hunger? Oh that’s right, let me guess…maybe the child cried out in hunger but was really just trying “to impose their version of an enlightened society upon the rest of us, without regard to our sensibilities. ” Who knows?

“That sort of selfish, guerilla mentality is not just inconsiderate to those
of us backward Americans who are not used to seeing babies suckling while
we’re shopping for party supplies or dog food, it’s also unfair to the
companies whose employees are only trying to do the right thing.” Again Chuck - not sure that guerilla is anywhere near appropriate here:

guerilla
noun
a member of an irregular armed force that fights a stronger force by sabotage and harassment

While I am certain that this cardiologist had every intention of making you “backward Americans” (as you so accurately labeled yourselves) uncomfortable, I assure you that just because you aren’t used to seeing women feed their children in the manner which was intended, that does not make it any less natural or appropriate. Furthermore, if it makes you uncomfortable to see an infant eat, than again I highly suggest seeing someone who can help you overcome your sexualized perception of what is in fact not at all a sexual organ. Or maybe it isn’t that the breast has been sexualized in America that makes you quiver at the sight of an infant nursing. Maybe it’s your own insecurity in your ability to do something as powerful as grow, birth and provide nutrition for a child all with your own God given body alone. Am I sensing a little envy here? Or is it just back to you displaying ignorance in it’s purest form? Again, who knows? I am interested to know why it is that you feel sorry for company employees “trying to do the right thing” when these company employees are violating the rights of others? How is this the right thing?

“What she’s failed to mention, either in print or on TV, is why she was so
compelled to plop to the floor instead of walking to the ladies room. Would
she have jeopardized her child’s welfare, his very life, if she had simply
made the effort?” Would she have jeopardized her child’s welfare? Oh right, now you are concerned with the child’s welfare, Chuck. No one expects you to eat your lunch on a public restroom toilet, why should her child be expected to? Oh that’s right, because you think so. This woman is making an effort. She is making an effort to provide for her child in the best way possible. And she is doing it with a lack of support in this country from idiots like you. Everyday mothers feel embarrassed about breastfeeding and even quit breastfeeding because morons like you try to make it something more than what it is. STRIKE THREE!

“What I do suggest to her and other mothers who act rashly, and then condemn anyone who complains, is to grow up before your child does.
And next time you go shopping with your infant in your arms, try bringing
along a baby bottle. ” WOW, I sincerely hope that no one asks you for suggestions on a regular basis. Breastfeeding a crying, hungry child is by no means “acting rashly.” Defecating on the grocery aisle floor, sure, but not breastfeeding. And as for ASSuming that all mothers who breastfeed are capable of expressing their milk so they can bottle feed their child for your convenience - once again shows how ignorant you are. And secondly, even if a mother is capable of doing so, it certainly shouldn’t be something she’s obligated to do to keep from offending someone like you. If you have a problem with seeing a child eat from its mothers breast, then I suggest you sir, be the one who takes a trip to the toilet. That is ironically, where all of your statements belong. YOU’RE OUT!

Thursday, October 11, 2007

Just for Katrina ;)

Cherry Bar Squares (kind of more like cake)

1 C. Butter
1-3/4 C. Sugar (I used the whole amount)
4 eggs
3 C. Flour
1 1/2 t. baking powder
1/4 t. salt
1 t. vanilla
1 can cherry pie filling
Powdered sugar & milk to make the glaze

Cream together margarine and sugar. Add eggs, one at a time, beating well after each addition. Add flour, baking powder and salt; mix well. Add vanilla and stir again. Batter will be thick. Spread 3/4 of batter on greased jelly roll pan (I used a 9x13). Then put 1 cup cherry pie filling on top, spreading cherries as evenly as possible. Put remaining batter in dollops over all. It will spread as it bakes. Bake at 350 degrees for 40-45 minutes. Remove from oven and while still warm, ice with powdered sugar icing by drizzling over baked bars. It doesn't take much, it is mostly to make it look pretty. Cut in small bars or squares. (I just leave mine in the pan and cut as needed, I find it keeps them more most this way).

Wednesday, October 10, 2007

Things I've loved lately...

The way that Sydney sleeps...



Fall Baking... more specifically, this cherry bar/cake thingy. And yes I know that the second photo is blurry - Am I supposed to be a professional??? LOL



And you guys. My nanny friends. Lanae, Angela, Staci, Lori and Beth.



Who ever would have thought that one year in Connecticut would bind us all for life.

Thursday, October 4, 2007

My little iceman.

Well I got my hockey...errr skating fix after all! Blake had a long nap and felt great when he woke up. He was looking forward to it for so long that I put my concerns on the back burner and took him.



He did so great! It only took from the time I put him on the ice with his coach until the time I got up in the stands that I saw him zooming around with his little chair! He was one of the fastest kids out there and most of them had been before! I was a so proud! Especially towards the end when he and one other boy decided they were going to ditch the chairs and skate on their own. He only fell one time after that! I swear a tear almost came to my eye. The other moms were looking at me like I was crazy, shouting and cheering him on, taking a million pics with my camera and phone (to send to Dave in Cali) but I don't care. I was a proud and Canadian mummy.

It made me so excited for the future, not just for this, he might decide he hates this, but for all of the firsts and exciting events that are to come in his life.

It also made me a little sad. This is my first baby. My little boy. ICE SKATING.

I can't wait until Dave can come next week. I swear I had more fun watching than Blake did skating.

Your gonna have to click on this to actually see anything...

Tuesday, October 2, 2007

Gimme a H gimme a O gimme a C...

What does that spellllll? Hockey. Oh wait. No it doesn't because the day I was most looking forward to this entire month is going to have to be postponed. Blake came down with a fever last night and is still sick this morning. So unless he miraculously recovers then I am not going to see him all decked out in his big ol' hockey gear and no Canadian nostalgia for me. No really, of course I just want him to get BETTER! DUH!

In other news...

Nope, I am not pregnant. So STOP asking. What is it about a youngest child that is going to be three in a couple months that has people assuming I should be with child again? Maybe it was the one too many cinnamon doughnuts and nerd ropes.

Oh, and did I mention yet how much I LOVE the fall? Makes me want to bake. And clean. And sleep in my cozy warm bed. Now if only there was one darn tree anywhere within a mile radius of where we live. Life would be grand...